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I've just returned from being scrubbed with tumeric paste and massaged with frangipani oil in a tradition Balinese massage at the Bali Blessing Spa. On our final day in Bali, we decide to pamper ourselves. Mark gets a foot massage and I sign up for the royal treatment at the spa down the road. As I put my head on the massage rest, I notice myself gazing into a beautiful bowl of coloured petals on the ground beneath me. I smile. It's been the little things that make Bali memorable for me. For the next hour and a half, I reflect on my time here. I love the offerings around every corner. From simple palm leaf boxes to elaborate fan shaped designs, these bouquets bring colour, fragrance and ritual to the streets, shop fronts, car dashboards, and altars found at every home. Arriving at our hotel, we notice the offerings held by the two stone guardians in checkered sarongs. We learn that the black and white symbolize good and evil. There's seems to be a balance in the Balinese perspective on life. Visiting the shadow puppet makers we see how the leaf shaped kayon, representing 'the tree of life,' is peaceful on one side and angry on the other. The mandalas made of flowers in stone baths float in peaceful harmony. I love the everyday rituals that take place here- the daily offerings from dawn to dusk. Little things take priority and are done so mindfully. We wait patiently for Annie, our hostess in Munduk, to finish her offerings before she cooks dinner. Ribbons of incense greet us each morning as shopkeepers wish for a prosperous day. Each family has shrines to remember their ancestors. The past is not forgotten here. I become more aware of my grandma's beads around my neck. I smile at the yellow butterfly who offers a delightful whisper of her spirit in the flutter of its wings. Life is lived with meaning. Ceremonies abound. We excitedly follow a procession in Ubud and witness a cremation on the streets of Denpasar. On our road trip we drive pass many palm leaf decorations hanging from tall bamboo sticks. We are greeted with smiles at the gate. At Pura Besakih, we witness the strong faith of the Balinese people. Families and friends enjoy the ride in the back of pickups, smiling even in the rains. We see women balancing beautifully woven baskets of offerings upon their heads and notice the rice on their foreheads following their blessings. Children, anak-anak, are valued. Youth are treated with warmth and care. There's always a smile and a helping hand when we have Bella in tow. I feel a sense of family. The family unit that is seen riding together on motorbikes to families making the pilgramage to their holy temple together. The village is important. Community exists. The rice terraces, for example, work on the subak system, where everyone gets a share of the crop. Traditions are valued. Boys still learn gamelan and girls dance the legong. Although times are also changing. We hear the falling of a coconut palm from our hotel terrace. We see women carrying heavy rocks on their heads to build a new hotel in the once green rice paddies. Yet we also see signs of resistance. NOT FOR SALE stands defiantly in the paddy fields. The garbage is disturbing. There is an awful floatilla of plastic and garbage as we snorkel in Amed. We need to learn from the wisdom of the old Balinese folktale, The Gecko's Complaint. Grumpy Gecko, lacking sleep, complains to Tiger about the pesky fireflies who flash and flicker all night. When asked why they flicker, they tell Tiger they are only passing on Woodpecker's message. Woodpecker responds to Tiger that his incessant rat-a-tat-tat on the coconut palm is to kindly warn passerbys of the manure rolled by Beetle. When Beetle is asked why he is rolling the stink bombs, he responds that he's just tidying up Water Buffalo's droppings on the path. Water Buffalo tells Tiger that he is helping cover the holes left by the rains. Rain, of course, provides the puddles where mosquitos reside, mosquitos which land on Gecko's sticky tongue. Everything is connected. With this knowing, Gecko learns to live in peace with the fireflies. Indonesia reminds us with its natural beauty that we must be stewards of the earth. The earthquake in Japan and the tsunami warnings in Bali were humbling reminders of nature's power. Everything is connected. We need to do our part. Like the batik blocks stamping the colourful fabric of Bali, it is the people here who have made the greatest imprint on me. Smiles from strangers are easy to come by. The beauty of Bali for me remains in these smiles.

















